I would consider stretching that out to every day for a week, maybe blast some really loud metal, heat fish in the microwave, constantly talk to her about your eviction process, or whatever you can to annoy her and scare her off.

I didn't want to wait any longer because my realtor seemed to be getting annoyed and I actually want to live in this house so it was personal.

I watched one of those "MeetKevin" videos...while annoying to watch at times...can have some interesting tidbits like this video said if everyone in America spends --- I believe --- somewhere around $50 less per month, then we're bound for a recession, as that's multi-billions taken from the economy. 

And often times they are just annoying: I have failed several times because "the fan in bathroom didn't work". 

Pick up some cheap wireless routers from Goodwill for $5 and you’ll find most can already function at either end of that wireless bridge (either converting the existing municipal WiFi to Ethernet or rebroadcasting that Ethernet cable in a basic “bridge only” mode that gets you out having to do late night web search for “Double NAT” which is actually far more annoying than the physical bugs of the same name. 

We find that although many owners wish for a live-reporting feature, we don't think it would actually make them any happier once that becomes available - they will just have more reasons to panic unnecessarily.One thing that is annoying is the AppFolio statements have a "remit balance" line at the bottom.

Open to all Realtors, Tenants who are proud to honor their word and are annoyed by freeloaders & those who won't, and all other supporters of Private Property rights.This group is just starting, so let's pitch-in and help out!

How can I approach them about all this without being annoying????

(Yes, is annoying and stupid and your situation is exactly the grade A example why) I would verbally communicate with the tenant and explain (in a 'nonthreatening') manner - don't use the terms like fine, fee, or "eviction" - that based on your understanding that they have not been impacted personally by COVID-19 insofar as income or ability to work that they should be able to, and you do expect them to continue to pay rent,   and while you will comply with all emergency orders, unpaid rent will continue to accrue and is expected to be repaid.    

Open to all Realtors, Tenants who are proud to honor their word and are annoyed by freeloaders & those who won't, and all other supporters of Private Property rights.