Start the conversation by saying "I am not taking sides, but you are accused of this, there is a restraining order, therefore you cannot return to the property and I am sure you don't want to anyways."

At the risk of rightfully being accused of highjacking this thread:@Genny LiThe irony is the western elites sold our civilization on if we opened up to China (and let them ship us a bunch of worthless plastic crap to sell at Wal-Mart to dump in our oceans) we would liberalize China. 

I love Charleston, I'm originally from Columbus, Ohio (city girl here) and moved here about 6 years ago.

I am 37, and I have a house and a family with 3 girls.

@Nathan Weber yes there are some scammers on here, even a few podcast guests who later on ran into legal troubles/ were accused of being bigtime scammers (research Clayton Morris/Morris Invest, whose podcast episode was eventually removed, as well as Oceanpointe Investments).

I have a loan officer and insurance girl that I really like working with.

Hi Jennifer,Over one hundred years old, Wow.Think of all of the people who have lived there over the years, some may have ridden horses to work.It reminds me of a Movie Called True Grit about a Girl from old time Arkansas looking for revenge (one of my favorite cowboy movies): https://www.youtube.com/watch?

(I got the impression that me made the majority of payments, but not because the girls weren’t, because he was able and wanted to.) 

I want to make sure that I am not making any mistake as the girl is lawyer by profession. 

I don't want something to get broken, theft accusation, a door left unlocked, pet got out, pet isn't secured, etc. have a he said/she said argument on who is responsible.