I would be patient and understanding if the seller is making a good faith attempt to satisfy the title company.To answer your question, 1.

Also, do you know some events in Miami to attempt?

No texts, phone calls or emails and no responses from attempts. 

In that instance it became necessary for me to buy out the lien.In any case, whether or not abandonment is recognized as a defense in the trespass laws of SC (look it up), you should seek to establish that the owner of record has either explicitly abandoned the property (have him sign a quit claim deed) or implicitly abandoned the property (the owner, hasn't been there or cared for the property for years and refuses to respond to all attempts to contact him/her at addresses of record). 

You get 5 attempts at it as free member, but you can always upgrade to pro.

(Lowers interest) Also saves $500-1000/mo on interest carrying the $100k.Would pre-list houses for sale mid project to attempt to line up buyers for each by the time houses are built.Would attempt to build modern or modern/craftsman and that is the specialty of the builder.

If this can be impressed upon a supportive spouse, and real life examples be described, I think that will be far more potent than attempting to train her with gifts every time you close a deal or keep it secret in the event of a 'missfire' deal.  

Have you attempted to google your answer? 

I’m sure I can get around it by taking out a home equity loan rather than the line of credit.So the question is this: will this not become an issue every time I attempt to refinance and pull money out of a deal? 

Indeed I wouldn't do this without a solid CPA/Tax attorney, but in response to your point about avoiding paying tax, I would think many of us here in real estate are attempting to position ourselves in a more tax advantaged manner using the rules of real estate tax laws to the maximum benefit possible.