Hi @Khaleel Jenkins
I think these are all wonderful questions and the beauty is that you have many options to choose from and locations for that matter. I personally always recommend to try to do something closer to home before jumping to long distance as it becomes easier to manage but you can definitely do long distance if you have the right systems and teams in place.
For myself personally, it comes down to how much I can afford for a down payment and that determines which route I go. If I go through the BRRRR process I need to have about 20% or 25% down and expect to pull that money back out, now you can get private money or HML to go help with that but this is probably the precursor for just starting is the amount of initial capital
For Househacking, you can get a property for a lower down payment and offset higher mortgage and taxes with roommates, etc.
If you have friends that would want to rent with you during the process, you can try to house hack into into a fix and flip where you buy a property and do a rehab that first year and eventually you can decide if you want to BRRRR it back or sell it as a flip, in my opinion it comes down to what makes sense for what you are trying to do. The beauty of a BRRRR or a flip is that you still have to analyze the numbers for both scenarios and can decide at the end if you want to retain it as a rental or flip the property. The key is to just find the deal (and of course financing on the purchase and the refi).
I would focus your efforts on just finding the deal and then deciding which method to go forth thereafter.