Trey:
There are a ton of variables here as the other replies noted, and I think the ultimate question is what do you want to do with your money and your life? For example, if you are looking for an appreciating investment, Wake County may not be ideal given the continuous price increases over the last few years. If you want to stop throwing money at a lease, then buying may make sense.
Next question - How big of a family do you want to raise? Your current down payment situation may not get you a very large house in Wake County today. If you have to buy, sell, and buy another house in a few years, you will be in for roughly (really, really, roughly) 10% in transaction fees on each deal. Hypothetically speaking, that would be $20,000 on the first property and, say, $30,000 on the next. How does $50,000 in transaction fees compare to renting for another few years until you can buy that second non-starter home that will suffice for longer? These estimates are off the cuff and meant to capture moving costs, time, lending fees, realtor fees, etc. They may not be completely accurate but are worth the consideration.
I think a rent to own arrangement may help you. I encourage you to do some additional research into how that works, there are a ton of YouTube videos explaining how they work.
Will