I love reading this post. Lots of ideas about where people find the most value and some ideas for ways to cut costs. Some people enjoy spending on certain things, while others enjoy frugality, even frugal pooping... I needed a good laugh. Thanks for this thread @Terry Lao!
I enjoy living on the frugal side of life. I make enough to have a choice, but I think it's fun challenging myself to spend as little as possible on what I consider to be wasteful or environmentally irresponsible. Here are a couple of things that help me save and also, I think, challenge me to live a tiny bit more lightly on the planet.
1. Buying in food in bulk and buying produce in season. Forces us to eat more locally and I feel healthy and enjoy cooking new things.
2. We drive old cars. They look bad, but when we put up one of our units for rent, the tenants always have nicer cars than we do. Priorities...I am amazed at how much people pay monthly for payment, insurance, and just the stress of dealing with a new car. I have the lowest insurance because I don't give a crap if something happens to my car. Hell, it might look better with a nice dent on the side.
3. Since I teach, I have the luxury of spending lots of time in a place when I travel. We tend to travel to places that are interesting and low cost. The cultural experiences are so rich when we travel on a budget. Travel in Africa, Southeast Asia, and Central and South America are amazing and super inexpensive. Snorkeling and boating on a dhow in Africa, so incredible. Trekking in Colombia and getting stuck in the rain. Riding a crazy train in Mexico. Yes please.
4. This year, we are taking a long trip and we have challenged ourselves to not make any purchases of new items. This includes plastic crap of any type, dishes, phone, linens, junk on Amazon, etc. until we leave on the trip. I am surprised at how much junk I normally buy, and how unnecessary most of it is.
5. We only have internet only and no cable. If we want to watch something on cable, we have to go over to a friend or family member. It's kind of nice!
6. We rented a room in our house out to someone we vetted well. We are saving a ton of money, and we really enjoy having her around. It's not a sacrifice, but a nice addition to our home life. We are older, and thought it was a weird idea to get a roommate at this point in our lives. But it's been a win win for all of us!
7. We reuse as much as possible. We try to repurpose items that we used to throw in the recycle bin. Glass jars, food containers from takeout places, bags, clothing repurposed into rags, etc. It's also fun to us to see how little waste we can produce. It may save a little money, but it also feels good to reuse stuff.
I find that none of this takes any more time than what I used to do, and I still have enough time to look for new opportunities, go to REI meetings, and find ways to make my money work a bit more for me. I think that even if I were rich, which I'm not!, I'd still be trying to live frugally. It's fun to me and matches my goals.