Adam,
I'll drop you a line on the phone tomorrow. I went through this same experience the year before last - 1 year before you did. I lost every dime I made, my credit, a ton of my income. Yep I pretty much went back to nothing. I'm on my way back from nothing and I'll be back to my pre-divorce financial level in about a year or so. I'm not going to paint a rosy picture for you though - it's a pain in the a--. It's tough work. The funny thing I'm learning though is that these anchors I feel on my legs right now aren't holding me back....they're making me stronger. Stronger for the future I have in front of me. I tell you man, knowing what I know now - when I get back to my pre-divorce financial status I'm going to kick some major butt because of what I've learned.
The construction mgmt thing is a pretty good gig. I'm working on creating that here with some people I'm teaching REI to. Another thing that would be good for you there in Florida is insurance adjusting. It's a great state to be an adjuster in and the license is only about a grand for all the training. Again, we'll talk tomorrow and I'll give you what tips I can. Take care man.
Tim
(FYI - the financial side of things suck but if I can make one recommendation different subject you're now dealing with - REI clubs are a surprisingly GREAT place to meet women. :groovy: )