Thanks everyone for the responses.
I have offered to help her move, return security deposit, and terminate lease without any arguments from me. I've also told her that she can terminate her lease at anytime as long as she gives me a 60 day notice and I will return her deposit as well, because I know that she cannot afford the home by herself. I am trying to help her out but shes being unresponsive.
Her words are that she wont get a home as large as this (4/3) for the price that I currently rent at, so shes not leaving
She has a 22 year old son that does not work and her other son has moved in to help out but cant afford to pickup half the rent.
I might go ahead and offer to lower rent for two months to a level that will cover my mortgage, which should put her at a level to help her recover from the break up.
I have told her ex that he will be on any eviction proceedings if it heads down that road, he didnt care, but I have not lost sight that he is still on the lease. He is also still on text messages that have been sent about this months rent and will continue to be as long as he stays on the lease
BTW, I have allowed roommates before even when the ex was there, but they all move because of her 22 year old son ticks everyone off