I'm in the camp of get help from a real person as opposed to listen to more podcasts and read these threads.
I'll agree that you need to be very cautious with a "Program". I've seen many people lose their money. However, I have also studied this and have seen that the majority of those who lost was because of themselves. They had the dream (and the tuition money) but didn't have what it takes to make it all happen.
Therefore, a mentor is my best advice for you and others in this same situation. But know that there will need to be a cost to you. Many people look and hope for a free mentor. Just keep in mind, you get what you pay for.
So where are these Mentors? Find them at a local meetup or someone you know. I believe they need to be in close proximity to where you live.
But what will you have to offer them? Money? Well, they might not need money from you. Work? Usually that just slows them down to train you and watch over you.
Find out what someone likes, call it a gift, show you'll do anything to learn. Pay for dinners, lunch (rich people love freebies).
You are on the right track to search for a "hand hold". Maybe call it something else since that's too easy to ridicule lol.