Thanks again everyone for the feedback. For those wondering how I got myself into this position I've actually been doing this for 12 years-- my husband and I would just pick up a house every now and then. I used to love everything about rentals and houses and remodeling and thought this would be my casual way out of the rat race. In addition to the rentals we would always do a live in flip on our houses and have moved about every 2 years for the past 10 years.
But a couple of years ago (2020) we refi'd the houses we've had a long time, bought another and remodeled it with the intention of making it an airbnb ----and the time and effort put into that remodel made me question what I was doing with these houses. I have spent so much time on houses - remodeling and dealing with tenant issues--instead of playing with my kids. And I just got kind of burnt out and I've never really gotten over that.
all of them seem like they should cash flow but the reality is our business bank account never reflects that, but it could be bc we are constantly in the process of remodeling something, I'm actually not sure.
Finally, our W2 jobs pay well and don't leave time to focus on making the rentals into a business and with having lost the drive to do it I'm just feeling a bit lost since these houses were a big part of my retirement plan-- and now I resent them.
Anyways, I appreciate all the feedback, it's given me a lot to consider.