@Cathy S. I 100% understand where you're coming from. I'm a tech worker in the Bay, there is 0% chance I will be able to save up enough personal money to put down 20% on anything, period. I agree, the traditional saving up for 20% down is wayyy too slow for what I want to do. But, if you want to do something different, you have to think about it differently, and be comfortable with doing non-traditional things. What I am talking about is a mindset shift, of embracing doing what it takes to get what you want.
Instead of "WHY would strangers trust me with their money" it becomes "HOW do I structure mutually-beneficial deals so others WANT to give me their money."
Instead of "I am hesitant to invest out of state..." it becomes "HOW do I invest out of state, WHAT systems and processes do I need to learn to be successful?"
1. First, establish what it is you want. Sounds to me like you are feeling less than fulfilled with your job, and don't want to be stuck in the daily grind for years on end while trying to accumulate properties. Often times, a goal is to "replace my W2 income" but you need to make it uniquely you.
2. Then, think of WHY you want it. This is your motivation, your reason for compelling you to do anything in the first place.
3. Establish a goal, fueled by your WHY, to get you to what you WANT. The goal should be S.M.A.R.T. - Specific, Measureable, Achievable, Realistic, and Timeline.
4. Working backwards from where you want to be, and where you are now, to establish the steps you need to take.
I know this isn't exactly what you were asking for. But I believe if you take these steps you will find the answer you are looking for. For me, sometimes I get stuck focusing on one thing like "how do I save up more money" when sometimes the answer is something different entirely, like "don't save up more money, use other people's money." And then if that is the answer, how do I go about executing that.
If you found this useful at all, send me a PM I'd be happy to hop of a phone call and chat. I think I can offer some fellow newbie perspective. Just a short while ago I was thinking the same things as you, and felt very stuck.