Update, on the 48 Laws of Power
So I am on the 24th of the 48 Laws of Power, and it indicates everything I'm not. I'm not deceptive, an actor, a liar, or opportunistic. I am the 'fool' in the book that gets run over by those that play the gain every advantage through any means necessary game, as the author states. The honest, fair minded, idiot that "no one else cares about".
It's a book unlike any I have ever read. I can't say I like it, but I cannot deny it's wisdom, even if I do not like it. It feels like I am reading the playbook of a con artist, despot, and backstabber, and it makes the world a little less bright as a result.
I cannot see myself going that route, but understanding the motivations of others, recognizing the duplicitous, and false pretenses, does actually remind, in a sobering way, that the world is not as virtuous as I would like to believe. Nor does my own integrity necessarily mean that others will recognize it and want be good towards or fair towards me.
Hard, but I suppose, important pills to swallow, and for that, I will continue to read it and learn. I will hopefully not be as naive, as I apparently have been about the dark side of what must be so many millions of people. It's a book of wisdom, just not the kind I hoped for. It's as if you were given the ability to see through others eyes and skin into what their motives are, their true thoughts and beliefs. A manual for every kind of snake. The historical examples/stories are fascinating.
How to sell your soul to the devil if you want to join them, and there are many compelling reasons in the book why you may want to.
"What if you could read minds, and see what people REALLY thought?"
This book is a lot like that.
One time I was in a specialized training related to the business I was in at the time, and the person holding the training shared the following:
"Be careful with who you become, while in the pursuit of what you want. Because after you get what you want, you'll have to live with who you've become"
I think I'm going to stick with that.