Originally posted by @Mike Jacovelli:
I know its encouraged here to tell your friends and family your goals with real estate. Tell everyone what you want to do and are looking for. My problem is everytime I do, I constantly have to defend myself and the reasons I am interested in real estate investing. I mostly get ignorant replies from people who have no clue what they're talking about and it just becomes frustrating to even talk to people about real estate investing. Anyone else feel this way?
Hi Mike, I like to put a positive spin on everything so another way to look at what you are experiencing is that the very reason that there are big returns to be made in real estate is because people don’t understand it and how it could work for them too. Thank god for the naysayers, if they were all fully on board with real estate returns would be much less.
That said, the negative forces are real and best avoided in my opinion. Spend your time engaging with people who you aspire to be like and who will support and encourage you to reach your dreams. People who put others down often do so because success creates an insecurity in them. You will find many people who use negativity as a smokescreen for their own fear of taking risks.
Here is a Quote from Theodore Roosevelt that sums it up for me:
““It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.”
Good luck!