Thank you for the detailed response, Ben Leybovich, it's good to get a dose of reality. I've gotten similar responses before but it's easy to get excited when I hear about sub2s and using other people's money for 100% financing.
Right now I'm getting my Real Estate License in the evenings, and while I know it's material that I could find elsewhere, I'm really glad I'm doing it. Getting my realtor's license is teaching me a lot of un-sexy details related to real estate transactions. It's forcing me to learn the basics and terminology, even if some of it will never apply to me. I'm looking forward to having access to the MLS, giving me the ability to accurately comp and find details on pre-foreclosures.
I'm also attempting to wholesale since it's 'low-risk' and 'low-startup.' In reality I'm learning that wholesaling is still a 'pay-to-play' game where you have to invest some money in marketing and a significant amount of time dealing with all the un-motivated sellers to find the few motivated ones.
Looking back, what would you have done to accelerate your 7yr learning curve? Obviously you've compiled your experiences and knowledge into your CFFU, and that looks like a great resource. I just feel that getting out there and doing something sooner than latter can only accelerate my learning. In 6yrs I'll be done dental school (2yrs) and my Army payback (4yrs), but there's gotta be something I can do between now and then besides studying. That being said, I don't mean "go out and buy something, even if it doesn't really cash flow." If I set a goal to find 3-4 sub2 deals in the next 2 years but I don't find any that are a 'true deal,' I'm ok with that. At least I'll have learned something from the attempt, whether it's how to (or how not to) market, talk with sellers, calculate comps, compare management companies, etc.
I would love to make some money in the process, but if I don't I'm willing to stick it out for the long haul. Did you have any local mentors? Did you invest in courses? If you could go back and change your educational experience from those 7 yrs, what would do differently?
I realize that I've derailed my own post at this point, sorry! I'd still love to hear more opinions on my original questions.