I have a family of 5 and have lived on one income for 9 years by choice to raise my kids. Up until now my oldest was homeschooled. We've made no more than 40,000 a year since we've been married. Most of that time we lived in Austin. We had two kids then and lived in a 2/1 apartment. We had and have 2 used cars. We ate well and shopped at Whole Foods. We ate out regularly at local mom and pops. Did free things for fun and to us it was the good life.
When we're single and one of us was a full-time teacher and the other working for a CPA for pennies, we saved $20,000 and also paid off my 21,000 student loans with our income tax money, a low interest consolidation and loan forgiveness for teaching.
My only regret is we didn't invest that $20,000 at the crash. Too uneducated and my hubby was fearful of risk.
Fast forward to now, we moved to a semi-rural town in Az and bought a home. Put a lot down using our retirement and gold and silver we purchased when the cost was low. I'm not crying over the retirement money because in the long run it wasn't much, and we are using it again from a refinance.
We thought this was our home for awhile, but teachers get paid awful in this town and the cost of food is ridiculous for our income. We are still joyful about life regardless. Barely making it though. That will motivate one to get it in gear.
My health is what really got us. I couldn't even dress myself for 9 months. Seeking holistic health, which has been effective, put us in some debt.
Started looking into investing and moving to Mesa where my doctor is located. We are just about to close on a multi-family with money from our refinance, pay all our debt off and have a significant about for reserves and remodeling.
The point of sharing all this is that if we can live happily with a fraction of what you make, you will be fine if you keep on track and continue to get creative with saving. You have a lot of income to work with, I think perspective is key. Convenience is nice but not necessary. Trust me, I want financial freedom, but that is relative to each person. I don't need millions.
Once, you get your ducks in a row, you can decide what is the right lifestyle for you. I'm all for taking nice vacations and having a nice meal, but I need to be able to afford it first.
Best of luck,
Rhiannon