Originally posted by "Upgraded":
I'm in Australia and I really really hate this place, The ' Goal ' of Moving to America is both hard if not impossible to do legally.
Granted I'm sure there's special Exceptions for billionaire investors, but not for starting out Aussies.
Regardless gotta keep a positive mindset, I've done enough schooling to apply for the lotto so its in Gods hands now.
Paul,
A few comments and I have not read all of the replies to the post. I am focusing more on your story.
1. A friend's wife is from Australia. She happens to be featured in a text book for child abuse in Australia. A case study. Rough stuff.
Stuff happens but it only your starting point. You do have some control over the future. Some starting points are really difficult but they do not have to be the end point.
2. She lives in London now. She returned to university after working for a number of years. As she ended up with a degree and then worked hard at a job with an international firm she one day met someone who worked in London but was visiting the office in Sydney.
3. Later she obtained a paid transfer to the UK. The company valued her skills and wanted to cover the costs of her relocation. It also let her maintain her relationship that later turned into a marriage.
She is not perfect and not everything from the past has been sorted. It is a work in progress and will likely be one for life. Granted most people are a work in progress. The only exceptions are the folks who give up before they actually die. They are frozen in time.
As to your move to the US. If you are serious about this I would not worry about the money. I would focus on your education. The US does not really wanted people with few skills and low educational standards. If you train up in a specialized skill that is in demand in the US you have many more options than just the annual lottery.
My limited exposure to Australia is the place is very much like the US. As the US is a big place some parts are more like Australia than others (west coast vs. east coast). Rather than think your world will be better when you get to the US make your world better and then you can go to the US at any time. If having money makes it easy consider that as an option in addition to the educational aspects.
You can spend a lot of time in the US even if you do not legally live there full time.
Good luck.
Note that the best way to change your future is to change the people you hang with. Focus on people who can help you advance and listen to what they sale. Watch out for the folks who offer simple solutions and other cons. Some of the speakers you mentioned will suggest building a team of positive minded folks who are getting on with their life. That is one key. The other is for you to make progress and not slip back. The nice thing about a degree is they can not take it back once you have it. Getting a degree also teaches you how to focus on a goal and stay on track until you get the job done.
Got it? Questions? Get in touch or post more. Folks will help if you are doing your bit. Rough days are expected.
That which does not kill you makes you stronger. Some of the time it pays to rest a bit rather than get yourself beat up too quickly. Hang in there. The future is bright if you know how and where to look.