to me, your post is the mother of all posts because of the topic. it's basic and it hits home, big time.
i can't tell you how many people i've met and said to myself, "how the hell did this guy do all this - he's a half-wit!" meanwhile, he's driving a vet and is so carefree - i say to myself - "how the hell did he do this?"
the bottom line (and this is not gender specific - it's just an expression) - BALLS.
at the end of the day - it takes BALLS to step outside the box, whether you're going to be a real estate investor or just do something that takes RISK.
RISK of money, if you put it in perspective of LIFE. at the end of the day you'll find that that is the least of your worries.
RISK of life - like physically, really puts things in perspective on a grand scale - that's serious business.
RISK of spirituality, the most important. when you sit around and don't take RISKS, you RISK destroying what is the ultimate gift - your spirit.
there's nothing like seeing a person without hope - it hurts, even when it's a total stranger. when it's a family member or close friend - it can make you cry like a baby. and when it's you, it's frustrating as hell!
so, i say to you - go out and do what you want. if you think in your mind that what you're doing is a good thing - then do it. if what you're going to do is going to rip someone off or if you wouldn't want it done to you - DON'T DO IT!
TAKE BABY STEPS. but hell, you can make them bold - WHO CARES ABOUT TALKING TO "busy" REALTORS??!!
let me tell you something - a realtor never wants to piss anyone off. some think their sh*t doesn't stink, but you don't have to start at the very top with a realtor who's closing 30 million dollar deals -
you see a sign, call on it. use google and type in different stuff like locations and then follow up with "real estate".
GO TO OPEN HOUSES. find those handyman specials and call the realtor on them, see if he can help you out. who cares. dump the feelings that keep you from moving forward. that's probably the single most important step you'll take.
forget fear of embarrassment or loss of money (to an extent of course).
there's dudes (and dudettes) that are walking the streets in Bagdad, a bazillion miles from home on Christmas Eve with their LIFE at RISK.
and here's my last tip - a good realtor will have referrals for attorney's and don't sweat a title company so much - although they can be like NIGHT AND DAY - just ask around and see who comes HIGHLY RECOMMENDED. usually the cream rises to the top and aren't hard to find.
contractors - please - dime a dozen. f*ck it - walk onto a job site and ask around. just say, "hey i'm looking for a plumber. got a card. i'm doin a job on the other side of town. big f**kin house. i'm moving on soon and i want a new guy."
be sure to use the obscenity. :D
HAVE FUN. what do you have to fear?....think about it...