How can she be a little slow on the paying side of things, yet never be late? She's late or she isn't, in my book. If you have a grace period of 5 days, for instance, and she pays within that grace period, she's not late and that's acceptable.
Heck, I pay within my grace period, because I get paid by SSA on the 3rd, which is when my automatic payment pays my rent, which has a grace period of the 5th.
Anyway, I'm curious as to what you meant by this?
I'm still a little leery about how she took care of the last place and think you should ask for more deposit money. It was in bad shape and the stove was really gross. Sure, you were going to replace it anyway, but what if she leaves the new stove really gross before you intended on replacing it? Etc.?
I just see you being "nicer" than you should be. There's nothing wrong with being business-like with your tenants. You can be business-like, and still be respectful and even friendly - yet, expect the other party to perform as agreed. Being too soft-hearted with tenants usually doesn't work out well. In my experience, they will keep pushing the boundaries. It's so much easier to just have firm boundaries from the very beginning. I learned this the hard way, so I'm in no way being critical. I'm trying to help you avoid learning things the hard way, like I did.
Excellent and well received advice as always, Sue. I have a lot of respect for your words because you often times speak harshly, but also take the time to explain why. Critique backed up with explanation is gold for me to learn from.
So when I say a little slow but never late, I mean that she does not proactively pay on or before the 1st, but she also does not go late after the 5th. So yes inside the grace period - a little slow is really meaning by my standards, not by the lease agreement. I have been sending a reminder text to her on the 1st and she has been complying.
I do know she was leaning toward not staying after her lease was up in July, however now she is paying $25 more a month and signing for another 15 months. I feel like that was a double win right there. And the additional $375 in rent won't pay for the light rehab I did, but with a granite countertop and SS appliances, it will be a more desirable option for the neighborhood.
I'll have a better idea of how she has taken care of the place tomorrow since I have a city inspection in the morning. I did go in a couple of months ago to replace a GFI in the kitchen and it really wasn't so bad; she had it the best she could I think given the age and condition of the property.
Maybe I am a little nicer than I should be, I won't really know until a little later. I'm not a pushover, but I guess as each tenant takes their own little advantages, my control will get just a little tighter each time. And I'm sure I'll learn from mistakes as I go along. And of course, hopefully I won't tick off a bunch of people here on BP and I'll still get my questions answered!
Thanks as always for charging at me with your input! :)