@Michael Cox What you are trying to do is not impossible and you can reduce your risk in a number of ways. If you need to invest out of state for the numbers to make sense the first steps you should take are:
1. Identify potential Locations
2. Identify potential partners
3. Identify your core four as David Greene describes - Property Manager, Lender, Contractor, Real Estate Agent.
An easy way to get started in a new location is to visit that location for a few days. Identify potential properties of interest and contact the listing agents for each of those properties to have them show you the properties. If they have tenants ask them how they like the property manager, have they lived other places in the community and did they like those property managers. If you look at 10 + properties with 5-7 Real Estate agents you will likely find a specific agent who "clicks" with your personality better than other agents. If you visit multiple properties with tenants and agents you will ask each agent and tenants for property managers they like and will certainly hear a theme.
To identify contractors in a specific area join the local community Facebook groups. Once a member of the town or community Facebook group search for contractor, plumber, electrician, hvac, foundation, flooring, etc in that Facebook group. The Facebook groups can store years of posts by members. Multiple times a year members will ask for recommendations for everything from mechanics to wedding venues to contractors for repairs. With years worth of these questions in local groups and surrounding are groups, in 2 hours you will find themes of the same people recommended over and over again. This will give you a list of contractors to try and use.
Start with something small and renovated if you are concerned. You have a 16 year horizon to invest and 80 k to invest with but you want to feel comfortable with real estate to be able to find BRRR deals. You didn't mention how much you wanted to scale or building a massive team so i will assume maybe 5-10 properties. Your first 5 years will let you get to know the area, the contractors, identify a potential partner to have boots on the ground and establish a beach head understanding of investing in real estate through real experience. The next 11 years you will be poised to scale. A 150k townhome or SFH on a 15 year mortgage that is renovated and rents for maybe 1200-1300 in middle America or secondary markets is a high quality location, higher caliber tenants, and a less risky investment. You have 80k to invest. At 20% down with a local credit union in that area you would have a mortgage of about $120,000 and a payment of about $900. The loan will pay down by 30k in 5 years. You could buy 3 and learn the area. During that time you have $90k in principal pay-down, learn the area, benefit from appreciation, learn to manage property managers, repairs, contractors and basically find out if real estate investing is right for you. By year 5 you will know your way forward and could refinance or sell your 3 properties to pull all of your money out and move forward with your overall game plan for the next 11 years to scale for retirement or let those properties continue to pay down on their 15 year mortgages.
The hardest part is getting started but no one said you have to go for a home run on your first property or try to scale immediately.
Your plans to BRRRR out of state will become easier as you develop a team in that local area or identify a partner. There are still plenty of places in America where the numbers still make sense for BRRRR with some effort but you need a team (your David Greene core 4) in place who can execute the plan which each project (property) you identify.
Good luck!
Mike