Quote from @Dmitriy Fomichenko:
@Ernesto Barragan JR
Be very careful with the whole life insurance. Don't simply rely on the illustration by the insurance agent. They typically make commissions equivalent to one year of your premium payments and have a vested interest selling the policy to you, they do not have your interest at heart. If you know how to invest your money - whole life insurance is a rip off (it might work for those who have no idea how to invest or are unwilling to learn, so the forced saving component of the whole life insurance would provide them with so me benefits at the very high cost).
Is the 401k with the current or past employer? If past - you are free to move that to a self-directed IRA. If current - you may not be able to access those funds at this time, contact your plan administrator and ask about "in-service distribution".
You won't be able to combine your IRA investments with your personal investments (regardless if you are using equity in your home or savings). You need to have two separate plans: investing your retirement dollars and separately from that making personal investments.
I agree with @John Perrings. I own both an insurance agency and am a TPA for 401k plans, defined benefit plans, etc.
CV life insurance, if designed correctly, has many benefits outside of what the balance is at the end. If designed properly for cash value growth, the commissions are lessened considerably than someone who doesn't understand how to design a policy.
I CV life insurance quite often for Deferred Compensation Plans for business owners as well due to the tax benefits for the employER.
On another note, if you're using it for REI, than the real value is the RE on its own.
And if you're filing a Schedule E as a REI, then your income doesn't qualify for 401k contributions anyhow.