@Ron Brady
I absolutely do the same thing.
The first time I had an appraiser come to my rental property, I went through a lot of effort to clean the entire exterior and help the tenants clean the interior. I also dressed nice and professional to meet the appraiser and stayed to answer questions and provided additional info including recent improvements I had made and comps for the area. The appraisal came in at 380k. Much lower than I expected. I am brown (East indian).
I got a second appraisal and this time my husband met the appraiser in his usual old overworn t-shirt & shorts. I did not attend. Appraisal came in at 480k. My husband is white (Irish/Italian).
380k vs 480k is a huge difference!! We are both certain there was bias involved here. Now my husband is always the one who meets with the appraiser.
I have also experienced bias that works in my favor too. For example, even though my tenants know that I own the over $1M property that they are renting in, they speak to me like I am a poor broke mom, struggling to make ends meet. Not sure how they get this impression since they also know I am a working professional. I believe it is just bias because I am a woman/ visible minority. But I think they are motivated to pay their rent on time for this reason, so I am definitely ok with them having this impression!
I also used to have an Airbnb where I believe bias worked in my favor. My husband and I would take turns meeting the Airbnb guests and letting them into the property and I started to notice a pattern. Whenever I met the guests, they would give a 5 star rating, and whenever he met them they would have nit picky complaints. For example, he got complaints and stars taken off for things like, “the top of the fridge was dusty” and “there were no oven mitts provided”… If you understand Airbnb, you know how critical it is to get 5 star reviews. My husband is very charming, affable and great with meeting strangers. I on the other hand, am the nerdy awkward one who is better at crunching numbers than being a charming host. And yet I was get 5 star reviews and he was getting nitpicky comments.
The only explanation I can figure is that when people see a white male Airbnb host, they see a professional investor with a business that is making them rich. So they are hyper critical. When people see me, they just see a poor struggling mom trying to make ends meet. So they feel sorry for me and give me great reviews. It’s ok with me. I will take it all the way to the bank :)