Hi Anna,
I personally invest in upstate NY and I have partnered with someone on one of my deals. While it's gone fairly okay, there still have been some hiccups that I will make sure I address next time before I jump into another partnership.
Here are some things to think about:
- Decide your strategy first. This is going to be based on your goals. Are you in it for cash flow? Or more of an appreciation play? Are you comfortable holding it for awhile, even if that means you might have to pay a little out of pocket along the way while you are stabilizing it? Or do you want to do a project more like a flip where you can get in and get out and test how your partnership works before you commit to a long term relationship?
-Once you have that, develop your operating agreement. And use a lawyer. They will ask you a ton of questions you probably won't even think about when you two are coming up with the initial agreement yourself. Why? Because it's your first deal and you don't know what you don't know. What will happen if one person wants out? What will happen if one partner dies? What will happen if your tenants aren't paying rent and you have to carry the property for a bit? Who is managing the property or project of fixing it up? Who is managing the bookkeeping an taxes? Etc. Etc. Etc.
-Lastly see if you guys are a match in stressful situations. This may sound silly, but travel together. You get a real sense of how someone handles stress when something goes wrong on a trip or when someone is put into an entirely new situation outside their comfort zone. Both of those things will inevitably happen while investing. Are you a match and are you compatible when it comes handling challenges thrown your way. If not, I'd strongly reconsider partnering with this person.
If the reason you are thinking about partnering is just because you feel like you need the money now, to get started today, pause. Go back and really consider whether this person will add stress to your life or remove it when things get hard. Cause the first one is ALWAYS hard. Remember, you can do it on your own. It may take longer, but sometimes its better to partner with no one and take the slower and steadier road than introduce someone just so you can get there quicker. Just food for thought.
Either way, good luck! I know if you stay the path and are committed, you will be wildly successful. You got this! :)