What is condescending is the underlying assumption that I don't know I should contact an attorney for legal advice when I need legal advice. If I'm asking for stories of people's experience, it's because I want stories of people's experience. If I want legal advice, I'll ask for legal advice (and I'll ask someone qualified to give it, not ask it here!). It shuts down all discussion to give "Ask a lawyer" as an answer. It's completely unnecessary and unhelpful AND it keeps me from getting the answers I'm actually asking for in the forum where I'm asking for them.
Same thing with the question about buying a block. What is condescending is the underlying assumption that I don't know I should do my research on the area before deciding whether to invest in a neighborhood. If I'm asking for feedback on buying a block, it's because I want feedback about buying a block. If I want advice about the particular neighborhood, I'll ask for advice about the particular neighborhood (and I'll ask someone qualified to give it, not ask it here without even saying where it is!). It shuts down all discussion to give "Reconsider investing in that neighborhood in the first place" as an answer. It's completely unnecessary and unhelpful AND it keeps me from getting the answers I'm actually asking in the forum where I'm asking for them. (In that case, I feel like it was salvaged when I restated the real question and people have been giving actual feedback, but it shouldn't have been necessary.)
It bothers me when people state or imply that I shouldn't be asking the question I'm asking because other questions are more important. If there are other questions that are more important, assume I have half a brain, have figured that out, and am addressing them too. When I post a specific question in a specific contest, like a forum post on Bigger Pockets, it's because I'm looking for an answer to that question from the people who have the opportunity to answer it, not because I want someone to critique my whole process, about which I've said nothing.
It doesn't bother me a lot. It just bothered me enough to ask whether I could click a button and prevent it from happening again, that's all. When the solution to a minor annoyance is very simple and easy, like clicking a button, why not weed out the annoyance?