@Evan Zeigler, it all starts with saving as much money as you can. You and your wife are young, have no kids, and I'm assuming you'll have good jobs, so you should be able to save lots of money. This will provide you with the ability to purchase great real estate assets.
The next thing to consider is how active you want to be. Unless you are investing in someone else's deals as a limited partner, you are going to be active. I would highly suggest you utilize third-party property management, but you'll still be somewhat active as long as it's you who finds, buys, and runs the deal.
A lot of people get started as limited partners. I think this is a great way to get started. As soon as you can come up with $25k, you can invest in a syndication. This allows you to get your money working for you in real estate, but more importantly, it allows you to start learning how to invest in real estate.
Good luck and God bless you and your wife!