Hi Ginger,
Of course there are a lot of different answers or ideas. And not knowing your background or long term goals my ideas may not be right for you. But here are a coupe.
Since you like to do renos you might consider a duplex and house hack. Look for a duplex that needs a little work. Fix it up and live in one side and rent the other. The advantages are your tenant pays the note while you save money. Then in a couple of years you can do another one or use the income from both sides to offset the note and show income above and beyond what you are making at your job. Now you might be ale to qualify for that second note and use it to buy/build your long term home.
If money is the issue you could partner with someone. You use your money and credit and W2 to buy/build your house and partner with someone who has the money but to the time or knowledge to do a flip. If you don't know anyone who wants to partner with you join your local REIA club. You will meet a lot of like minded folks. Or just ask friends and family. You might be surprised who wants to take the plunge.
Looking for a house that needs a lot of work has its advantages when it comes to buying. But then the repairs are more extensive and therefore more expensive. Once you become a seasoned flipper and can turn around a major rehab and flip in 3 months this is a great way to generate cash. But if its going to be a do it when you can and take a few years type deal its not going to get you any further along than you are now.
And one last comment on your desire to flip. I love the idea of flipping. I think it can be fun and it does generate cash. But its a short term fix. Once you stop buying and flipping you stop making money. And you may stop buying not because you aren't trying but because the market gets tight. Give some thought to buying and holding if you want to generate long term passive income. Read up on the BRRR method. That's Buy, Rehab, Rent, Refi. There is a great book right here at BP on the topic by David Greene.
Bottom line is you have already taken the first step and have the real estate investing bug. Good luck!