Hey @Grant Rothenburger - although the "three touch rule" is a good idea (i.e. get to know your investors before accepting their money) - it is not a legal concept and does not create a pre-existing relationship in the eyes of the law.
A "pre-existing relationship" is defined as "intimate knowledge of one's financial ability to invest." Intimate knowledge means you have an understanding of the net worth and income of the potential investor. This can be accomplished with an Investor Qualification Form.
So what is a sophisticated investor to do if they are having a hard time finding deals in which to invest? My suggestion would be look for the Regulation A filings. There are a bunch out there for real estate that offer some great returns. I have done Regulation A filings for any type of real estate you can think of: funds for a specific type of asset class, funds for multiple asset classes, hard money, note buying, etc. Many of the bigger crowdfunding platforms also use Regulation A so they can take money from unaccredited investors.
What do you do if you are LOOKING for money?
Here are some hard facts for you: since the JOBS ACT passed, more than 77% of the Form D's filed were under Rule 506(b). This means that most successful fundraisers aren't even using Rule 506(c).
So how do they do it?
Well, what a lot of people are doing here right now - building trust, offering information, and educating. Eventually the "crowd" gets the idea and hunts down the syndicator/fundraiser instead of the other way around. It is a pull method of marketing as opposed to a push (and is far more effective in my ever humble opinion.)
I got to run, but I have more to say about this. Maybe I can add later.