@Jessie Nunley Either stay away from them or wash them out of your life for good. I couldn't be more serious. Wasted 2 solid decades listening to my family say NO, or im crazy, I'm an idiot for trying that blah blah blah. Mid 2000's I literally pushed them all out of my life, every single negative one of them, yes including my mom (But I stil call to say hi) 6 months after I did that. I made $186,000 on a major flx and flip. $186,000 AFTER my expenses. Right after I bought the house I got laid off. I used whatever money I had left in my bank account to pay the mortgage and fix up the place. I quickly ran out of money so I cleaned buses at night. The car I used to transport all the materials was a 1988 Lincoln Town car. I read book after book on how to do wiring, drywall, tiling plumbing because I couldn't hire any contractors. I started believing EVERYTHING my family for years would say to me. I can't tell you how many times I sat inside that house alone and cried cursing myself. But the next morning I rolled over and got to work ... And then one day I was finally done....... After the sale the money was wired to my account at 3pm I remember sitting in my car looking at my phone and seeing my bank account on my screen and $186k, I was numb the whole day, drove around for hours going no where, then later I cried, because I internalized all that negativity for years and years from my own family (I wanted to start RE when I was 17, I almost gave up numerous times rehabbing that house, their voices kept creeping in telling me I was stupid, I can't do it.
F Them dude, stay away from them, and make YOUR life better. The fact you can think about it means you have the capability to do it. I never told anyone that story, but what you said hit a chord within me, but its as real as the day it happened.