Jeff,
It's in the times of discouragement that you determine, like Lisa, if this is right for you. Real Estate is not a fly by night simple pursuit. You cannot learn it in a night, week, or even a year - you can though, focus on one thing in a short period of time, as Eddie said, and expand from there.
For example - you want to re-hab? Well, as you said, it takes "skin" in the game. So then - how do you get some cash?
1. Save it from your current income.
2. Make it from wholesaling.
3. Partner with someone - but it needs to be someone that has all of the experience you lack - or both of you will get into a bad deal.
The problem is, in SoCal, wholesaling is not so simple. BigFlip2008 seems to be making it happen but it is not too common to find a success story from others.
You have to find someone willing to work with you. They tell you what to do, and then you do it. Maybe they are a foreclosure buyer and you have to track sales for them - you do everything and they just take the deal and do it. Maybe they are a short sale buyer - you do everything, and they work the deal. Maybe you tell the Realtor that if they will help you - you will deliver post cards for them - I don't know - be creative. Let me tell you, if you want to save me postage, then I will give you a cut of any deals created - no problem. I am certain the same goes for Realtor's in your area - you need to add value to the "mentor".
These are 2 major areas that are active in this market and are viable.
But be prepared to do a lot of work and make nothing for awhile - maybe you will luck out and make a grand or two in the next couple months - but maybe you will not make anything for 3 or more months.... you never know. But one thing is for certain if you have a focused plan, that you can confirm with experienced people here on BP that it is a good plan, and take action toward the goal every day - you should make something happen.