I built a business with my wife of 10 years and she decided to go her separate way and took everything with her, that was worth having. Before that I've always worked with my father at our funeral home and after he died in 2016 his new wife took everything that he had. I lost everything due to lack of payments, my car , home, dog, guns, etc. amongst other things that put my credit in this situation.
I've considered working for a broker after finishing my license course to save up money. I'm an "office worker", not labor type but I live in a pipeliners territory. I see wholesalers use other peoples money in real estate but they are not willing to share, for free. ( if anyone is actually interested in paying it forward and I would be more than grateful.)
I have deals under contract that some "dream makers" backed away from. Its real money to be made here. (Just for example, I have a deal right now that less than 1/4 miles from the mall. The ARV is 112k, repairs are between 15k-22k, I have the seller satisfied with 30k, my end buyer was willing to pay 40k because he specifically asked for this area but now "the street is too busy". Thank God the seller has someone lined up to do a land contract just in case I cant get funded.) I can get deals all the time and I get tenants all the time. The population growth isn't like a big city so getting rich will take a few years but its worth the extra
50-100k in the long run, of that's my opinion.