It looks like you are desiring this for a residence and not really looking at it primarily as an investment. Some of my thoughts: 1) you are in a fairly high tax bracket which will provide a good write off on mortgage interest and property tax. 2) You already live in the area and like it. This implies that you are likely to stay more than a few years. I recommend purchase over renting for anyone that is planning on living at the location more than 5 years. 3) because you are not really looking for an investment opportunity but instead a home to live in and enjoy it is more important to buy the place you like than purchasing a little below retail (investors in general do not want to pay retail for a place but they typically are not living there (a few exceptions about living in investments such as for house hackers)).
I was scared when I purchased my first home. It was many years ago and the home was ~4X my salary and the interest rates were in the 8% (early 1990s). My mortgage to income (>40 of my income was going to my mortgage) would leave very little room for fun items or unexpected expenses. I cut coupons. I did every unexpected expense item from plumbing to car repair myself. I am happy that I did not let my fear prevent me from the purchase. Today I have made multiple offers sight unseen on various properties. So the first home purchase is scary but I think if your planning on living there for at least a few years you are more likely to do better purchasing it today than later.
If you were purchasing this primarily as an investment my advice would be a little different such as do not pay retail, consider house hacking, your mortgage to expected rent is to tight to be cash positive with maintenance, vacancy, and cap expense added, evaluate exit strategies, etc. But you are buying your home to live and enjoy and any investment potential is icing on the cake.
Good luck