My view almost matches @Chris Seveney with a little more explanation.
Unsuccessful people hit a hurdle and cannot clear it. They often think poor me. I got unlucky or someone $crewed me, etc. these little hurdles are excuses not to proceed. Life is rough on them because they are not equipped to handle these hurdles.
Successful, motivated people hit similar hurdles and they find a way to clear the hurdles. Even if the hurdles keep coming, they keep clearing them. As they clear more hurdles, they get better at it. The hurdles that are road blocks for the unsuccessful people are barely speed bumps for the person who has cleared dozens of challenging hurdles.
Housing currently has poor affordability. However I have been hearing this for years. Prior to 2022 q2, housing was more affordable than the bulk of the previous 50 years. Sure it was not as affordable as 2012, but historically it was affordable. Various hurdles prevented most wannabe RE investors from investing. Prices are too high. Housing is a bubble and going to crash. Interest rates are going to fall. Housing shortage, not enough supply. Too much competition. Analysis paralysis. Does not achieve the initial cash flow that I seek, Etc. Minor hurdles, but too big for some people to overcome.
My brother was a journeyman electrician. Went to college and an apprenticeship program making scale salary while working as an apprentice (meaning it increases the closer you get to journeyman and the day you become journeyman it nearly doubles) to become a journeyman electrician. He was a journeyman electrician over a decade when the state mandate passing a test to be a journeyman electrician. Brother has dyslexia. He took the test and barely failed. He was frustrated, demoralized, etc. so he let a lot of time pass before taking the test again to once again barely fail. Again a lot of time before taking the test again and again barely failed. after 3 failures, he gave up. I do not have dyslexia so I may not understand all the challenges that come with it. But if I barely failed, I would sign up for the next available test and study a little harder. Even if I failed 3 times, if that is my best opportunity I would not give up. He feels cheated. He feels unlucky. However, this is not the only thing he feels cheated or unlucky about. He feels he has had a rough life. I feel if I was in his position I would have cleared the hurdles, maybe not always on the 1st try. He believes I am lucky and things break my way Whether it is recognizing the value of information before it is commonly known or buying RE that appreciates substantially.
I feel lucky. I fell lucky that I am able to clear the hurdles put before me whether via hard work, intelligence, experience, or luck. I feel the world is full of opportunities. I have made a lot of money via 3 different paths. I feel there are more opportunities than I have the time or desire to tackle (plus at this point I tackle them because I find financial success to be my fun which is not as motivating as needing to house, cloth, feed a family).
Best wishes for everyone to clear their hurdles