Awesome replies in here, so I'm just going to ask the questions w/out trying to quote everything.
I understand net= gross-costs. Thats simple math.
My friend who's VP of finance does stocks as well as real estate investments. He buys properties and rents them out for cash... namely warehouses and office buildings, but also some housing units. I'm not going to rely on him for ANYTHING other than keeping my books and making sure that I'm not losing any more money than I need to be.
Yes, taxes suck.... I dont believe in them. I've been "blessed" with living in tax-hungry NYS.. yay me.
For numbers:
Going to buy something between 80-90k tops.... will probably put 10k down and keep a some leftover for improvements. I will probably be asking about $650/mon, give or take, depending which facility I find. I'll be getting a tri-plex, so thats roughly $1400/mon. No PMI if I go w/ a VA loan, otherwise I'm not too terribly worried about the cost.
For a $96,500 loan I'm looking about $842/month for all insurance/taxes/fees/mortgage. If I get a house for less than $92.5, which I fully plan to do, obviously this number will go down.