@Andrew Lisi
Andrew, welcome to bigger pockets and thanks for posting an intelligent question/thought. There really are a large number of ways you can get started investing and many ways to finance your deals. It varies as widely as people do really.
Don't feel too intimidated, I had a part time job or maybe got that just after I decided to pursue real estate for my future, and .36 cents in my pocket. No kids though - I would've had to pursue things differently had that been the case.
Now I believe it was the podcast "the one thing revisited", I think.... where the story says you basically need to work backwards to where you are in order to put the right steps together to move forward. You should listen to it when you get time. It was interesting to me since I've almost always done that somewhat naturally. The point I'm making here is, you want to enter real estate investing, so...... what exactly are your goals?? I saw your profile said you'd like to end up a millionaire, though you didn't say when you'd like that to happen. Good news is that your goal is entirely possible with real estate!! There isn't any bad news - must be your lucky day!
I'd say this, for starters anyway..... Make an end goal that is attainable, you can always adjust it upward as you move forward. Ok so make that goal with a time line for it, then work backwards to where you are today. That will help you see the path. You say you're very new to REI, so maybe setting aside time in you goals in this beginning period to read and learn and explore your market and get comfortable in your new REI clothes would be a good first move so that you get off to a good informed and confident start when you make that first investment!
Feel free to post back here with some refined thoughts.
Some questions to think on as you form a strategy:
- do you have any money to use now to invest with
- will you be a multi unit only, sfr only or mixed bag investor, or commercial
- if you make an investment, or when you do rather, what number in monthly cash flow will you set as your floor in order to get involved in the deal (mine is 200$/month/property, or I don't buy)
- can you find owner carry sellers
- can you use a lease option or find lease option sellers
- what grade of property or neighborhood/tenant will you be targeting
- what fits best into your life as far as time management with the young kids at this point
- do you have anything to bring to the table in order to partner up with someone to make all this a bit easier
- according to your opportunities you find out there, what additional streams of income can you identify to go along with target properties or create as a result of being an investor (some people are agents, brokers, property managers, some use coin op laundry in multi units etc etc etc)
All these types of things can go on forever as far as lists are concerned, but you'll have to find a comfortable place to start/enter investing and evaluate things as you go along and readjust as time passes.