Hi Katie,
I'm just a beginner in REI and I've been watching a lot of different youtube videos of different vlogers that film their flips and share with the broader community.
Here is my perspective (as someone who watches these videos just to start learning about flips) on what is very helpful as I watch those videos:
1. Current state of the property - just showing how the property looked before any major rehabs as a starting point is super helpful
2. Buyer's perspective on current state. It's super helpful to learn what was going on in buyer's mind when he/she approached the property (e.g. top-3 good things about this property that made you buy this house; top-3 bad things that you spotted right away where a rehab will be needed; top-3 areas where you saw an opportunity to add value - probably this is in parallel with the top-3 bad things).
3. Initial rough financials - purchase price; rehab estimates; ARV; financial and closing costs (very often the videos miss sharing details on the financing aspect of the deal, which I think are very helpful)
4. Rehab process - lot of things that can be shared here, but I think a walk through video for each major room with initial details on what is the rehab plan and a rough cost estimate are the best. I'm not that interested in actually watching the rehab process, because I'm not planning to do the rehab myself, but the financials are really important.
5. Aftermath - closing up with a short video of how the property looked after (incl. each room, a summary of total rehab costs and time it took + potential ARV (you mentioned you will be using the property for yourself, so maybe just a guesstimate of the ARV)
These are just some initial thoughts. Hope this helps!