@Richard Rafferty, given the relatively small nature you are looking to take on with your first syndication, personally, I would find it hard justify the typically 20-30k+ for a paid mentor. Admittedly, I am not one that typically finds paid mentorship very valuable, but I also respect that my degree is in business with a focus on real estate, and my first job out of college was in real estate (so it is a little hard for me to take my 20 yrs of knowledge and rewind it to try to view mentors from a completely fresh lens).
A couple points: I view mentors, especially these expensive ones as a catch-22. Mainly because, while I think there are some that offer truly valuable information, you need to know where you "holes" are to make sure you are plugging those. To know your holes, you typically need experience. But also, even as Joe points out in his book, the true value of a syndicator is pulling together all the pieces.
So, if you don't know how to build financial models, there are some available that are pretty good online (adventures in CRE is a great resource).
You don't know what assumptions to use, talk to your PMs about expenses and rental levels.
Don't know how much renovations will really cost, again, either PM or GC conversations.
Raising money is all about marketing and sales (not real estate specific) so either hire marketing agency and read sales books, or hop on some LinkedIn courses on marketing and sales.
Not sure the legal structure to use: talk to accountants and attorneys.
Need deal flow: talk to brokers and go to a lot of networking events.
Lending terms: start calling banks and loan brokers.
From there, it is all risk mitigation. Floating rate loans may help cash flow early in deal, but put a lot of risk into deals. Do you raise for your reserves and capex, or do you hope your cash flow will cover it? Raising reserves makes sure they are present day one, but also dilutes overall returns. What fees to charge and returns to target? Well this is going to be more mandated by your investor base than anything a mentor can help you with (i.e. there are groups raising money targeting low double digit returns, with limited cash flow, and other groups that need to show mid-20s to get investor interest).
Lastly, if you are looking at a mentorship: really hammer on HOW they will help you be successful. There are a LOT out there that use their mentorship as an opening sale to get you to help the mentor be more successful. There are a lot of groups out there that basically want you to pay them to find the mentor deals, so he can take a slice of your deals. Or, the "pay me to learn how to raise money, so you can then go and raise money for my deals".
And if you are just not sure if a property you are sent from a broker is a good deal, you can always get on these forums and ask. No deal is perfect, and anyone on these forums will have different investment objectives as you, but you will typically get some things to at least think about before moving forward.