Robert Leonard,
I couldn't agree with you more. It sounds like you've run across a lot of bad apples out there. Remember I posted about integrity in the business community. Part of that means when you do a LO, you are still doing due dilligience to check the renter, to make sure they have the ability to purchase. In my market, homes appreciate slowly, but that may not be true in all markets. My point is, don't take advantage of the renter...it is bad business. Don't want them to fail...want them to succeed. A happy, satisfied customer is worth the referrals for a lifetime. Part of my strategy is to buy low and sell LO so that the house will appraise for the renter during the term. Also, let's not overly complicate what an option is. It is a rental agreement with an option to purchase at a pre-set price. It is then in the renters interest to keep the property in great shape, to ready for his/her purchase date.
I advise anyone to learn, learn, learn. Lease options are just one tool in the tool belt.