Originally posted by @Brian Davis:
I have come to the point in my real estate investing career where I know in order for me to continue to grow, I really need to put a much greater emphasis on networking. This site is great for that I know. But I was wondering if someone had tips on how to find the right people to talk to? What people to approach for coffee? How to ask people to meet up without sounding like a weirdo? I feel like the more people I can meet with, the better, but do I want to meet with newbie guy everyday for lunch? I feel like finding and talking with people that are currently involved with real estate and making a living doing so would be much better connection . But again, I do not know. Any advice? How would I be able to do this in large numbers? I would like to just start meeting someone new everyday if possible in my market and see where that takes me.
Thanks again for any advice.
How to find the right people to talk to?
Find three to six of the top people in your area, or possibly out of your area, if you are planning on competing locally. Find people who are doing what you want to do, call them, email them, track them down on a job site, sit outside their office door with a big gift until they give you two minutes to arrange meeting...
Most successful real estate people in my experience are willing to meet for free, coffee or dinner, if not ... Offer then $200.00 for 45 minutes of their time over dinner or coffee, most wont take it, but it show them that you value their time and information. If you decided to do this next week, and met with four or five successful people doing what you want to do, it could cut potentially cut years off your learning curve. Most likely one or two of those people would then be available for you to call when you run into obstacles, and if they couldn't solve the problem they know people who can.
I know plenty of people who for years have been attending real estate networking events that you really would not want to ask for advise.
But do I want to meet with newbie guy everyday for lunch?
No you dont, not if you want to learn something, if you just want to network and enjoy coffee that be ok, but wont get you far in your bussiness.
Any advice? How would I be able to do this in large numbers?
Large numbers will make it seem like you are doing something, but likely it will be spinning your wheels and getting confused. You dont need large numbers, you need one or two good people who know what you want to know.
Its a lot like the new people who want to build large buyers lists, I run into them all the time, if they just figured out what I want they could sell me 50 deals a year, if they can find 100, I could hook them up with a couple other guys real quick. Most wholesalers only need one to three good buyers, and you can find them in a week, you dont need to spend a year networking to build up a list of 50-100 potential buyers. This is s not a numbers game. Its a game of deciding what you want and then figuring out who can help you get there.
It has been said that if you dont have what you want, either you dont KNOW what you want or, you don't know how to get it.
Do you know what you want to do? Wholesale? Rehab? Buy and Hold?
If you dream a little, you had enough money to create your ideal real estate business, three years from now, what would that business look like?