All Forum Posts by: Corey Conklin

@Adam Peralto Welcome to the world of real estate investing!

There is a lot to learn but it's not as scary as you may think. I would keep reading the forums here on BP and learn from as many people as you can, network with people, and keep taking action. Define why you want to invest in real estate, come up with a plan, and start executing the plan.

You'll make mistakes along the way but that's part of it so don't sweat it. 

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You can withhold payment if they failed to perform. Ask them for an itemized list of charges and evidence that work was performed. If they can't prove the work was done, don't pay them.

 I have asked for an itemized bill but he has not given me one.

i had a lawyer review the contract and actually turns out I don't owe him anything. No marketing fees, no late fees and no initial $500 fee since it wasn't even checked off. 

he is threatening to send me to collections and to put a lien on my property. I'm really confused about the lien part because he hadn't done any work on my property... In fact he doesn't even have the keys to my property in order to get access to it so not sure what he's referring to. Both my lawyer and I were confused by this 

I wouldn't pay the bill. I also wouldn't lose sleep over his threat to lien. First he has to take action, which it seems like he is not very good at doing. But if he does, you have a pretty good case to get it removed. 

Filing a lien is different from state to state but I'm sure it's going to cost him a couple hundred dollars just to file the lien. I don't see him spending the money to file the lien.

I'd call his bluff and see what happens.

@Joe S. Health is your wealth! 

I've buried more people in my family than I would have liked to and it's all due to poor health choices. On my mom's death bed she made me promise her one thing, take care of my health. She made poor health decisions and paid for those choices with her life. I was spiraling down at the time with poor food choices, heavy alcohol consumption, and a very stressful work environment. With in the matter of 3 months of her death I switch jobs, started doing CrossFit (insert your jokes here), cut back on alcohol and made substantial changes in my food choices and haven't looked back since.

Health isn't a 30 day fad diet. It's stacking up good habits until it's no longer something you 'have' to do, it's something you WANT to do. Don't get me wrong, there are times I slip and miss a work out, or have too many beers, or eat a whole pizza. You need to understand that it happens and to get back on track.

As far as activity goes, you need to find what you enjoy doing - bike, walk, weight train, martial arts, etc. as you'll have a hard time sticking to it if you don't enjoy it. For me the activity part is easy, the nutrition part can get really hard. Preparing high quality, whole foods takes a lot of time and effort and with a busy life it's easy to revert to something quick and easy (which is normally not as healthy). Thankfully my wife is a rock star on the nutrition piece.

Just like it's good to have great people hold you accountable in your RE journey it's just as important to find a group of people that will hold you accountable with your health. 

@Sarah Bilbro I would suggest you start with understanding why you want to get into real estate.

Are you doing it because you saw others do it and get rich, so now you want to do it? 

Do you have a passion for finding deals, construction, design, or some other skill needed for real estate?

How will your real estate journey effect your current business and lifestyle?

I can say that everyone has a different reason that they got into real estate and I think it's critical to understand your why. Start asking yourself questions about why you want to do this and understand it will take work. Its often left out of the BP podcast how much work goes into building their RE portfolios. It's not as easy as buying a property and hiring a PM to take care of it for you.

You aren't a fool for thinking you can find success in REI, it can be had. You only become a fool if you think that you can put in minimum effort and expect maximum return.

I wasn't exactly sure why I wanted in RE other than I was sick of the so called financial advisors that manage your money taking a good fee to manage your money with poor results. I had a background in construction and management so I felt comfortable managing the business.

I put a ton of work into my 2nd rental property and it put a lot of strain on my life. It almost made me get out of REI. When the eventual tenant and her mother came and toured the place I'll never forget how happy her mother was when she saw the house, it almost brought her to tears. In my area there are a ton of slumlords and really awful houses so they were ecstatic when they saw the house. All of the hard work I put in gave someone a safe place to live, that made everything my family and I went through worth it.

This experience gave me my 'why'. When I'm going through the hard times of REI I reflect on that moment and it brings clarity to why I'm doing it.

If the wood perimeter is higher than the concrete floor (which I think it is per your explanation) you could always try to sand down the wood that is on the perimeter to try and get it flush with the concrete. Once you get it flush you can lay your floor on top of it. 

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@Corey Conklin Not sure how old are your kids. when I  started educating my kids they were young.

One of the things I did with them was open a special saving account (local Credit union) that gave  them 6% on the 1st $500. that meant over $2 every month in interest.

When they asked for a new toy - I told them :"you have money in the bank, you can use it but if you do you will het less interest. So do you really want the toy or do you prefer more money from the bank", most of the time they said :"I'll take more money" :)

 @Sharon Mittelman That is a great idea. Help your kids understand that money is a tool to enjoy life and the power of compounding interest!

My child is still young and expecting our 2nd soon. We aren't done having children so it's been a topic that my wife and I have been discussing a lot lately. We not only want our children to work hard and understand how money works, we want them to not attach themselves to material items. Your new toy example does a good job at teaching these principles.

@Corey Conklin  It is time to start them on the 401K plan !

With just $1K /year from age of 1 to 65 at 12% They will have almost $12,000,000 tax free money.

If you wait till they are 18 , the same $1K/year at 12% is less than $2,000,000. You just lost your kid $10,000,000 .

Just something to think about.

 And also 529 college tuition plan. Start from very early.


I was very happy this week as i just paid my son the last chunk of his tuition fee using 529 and real estate money , basically zero cost education lol…. All these investments after all the years are worthed as kid would finish their university with zero debts zero student loan , and he got 6 digit income even before he graduated.

invest in 401k/529/Ira/real estate is all worthed…

What if my kids don’t wanna go to college. Lol. 

Good point! It also winds back to another point: having kids is almost certainly one of the worst financial investments anyone can make. If we're going to talk about things from a pure dollar and sense point of view, there's fewer black holes for money than kids unless you have a farm and can take advantage of free labor once they are of age. Otherwise, you have added a number of individuals to your household who are unable (physically/legally/emotionally/etc) to pay for their own keep.

So if one *really* wants to maximize investment potential, having kids should be pretty far down on the list. Now let's see the comments fly! 😅

 I see where you are coming from when you say kids are a terrible financial decision. They aren't cheap and they take up a lot of your time. They test your relationship with your spouse, take away your freedom (and sleep), and will drive you crazy at times!

But having a child will open your eyes to a whole new way of life that is unexpected. Watching a child grow is one of the most amazing things I've experienced in my life. 

If you choose to not have children (which is 100% your choice) for financial gain, you will lose out on one of the greatest experiences in life.

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@Corey Conklin Not sure how old are your kids. when I  started educating my kids they were young.

One of the things I did with them was open a special saving account (local Credit union) that gave  them 6% on the 1st $500. that meant over $2 every month in interest.

When they asked for a new toy - I told them :"you have money in the bank, you can use it but if you do you will het less interest. So do you really want the toy or do you prefer more money from the bank", most of the time they said :"I'll take more money" :)

 @Sharon Mittelman That is a great idea. Help your kids understand that money is a tool to enjoy life and the power of compounding interest!

My child is still young and expecting our 2nd soon. We aren't done having children so it's been a topic that my wife and I have been discussing a lot lately. We not only want our children to work hard and understand how money works, we want them to not attach themselves to material items. Your new toy example does a good job at teaching these principles.

@Corey Conklin  It is time to start them on the 401K plan !

With just $1K /year from age of 1 to 65 at 12% They will have almost $12,000,000 tax free money.

If you wait till they are 18 , the same $1K/year at 12% is less than $2,000,000. You just lost your kid $10,000,000 .

Just something to think about.

 And also 529 college tuition plan. Start from very early.


I was very happy this week as i just paid my son the last chunk of his tuition fee using 529 and real estate money , basically zero cost education lol…. All these investments after all the years are worthed as kid would finish their university with zero debts zero student loan , and he got 6 digit income even before he graduated.

invest in 401k/529/Ira/real estate is all worthed…

What if my kids don’t wanna go to college. Lol. 

The cost of college has skyrocketed and the value of a college degree is going down every year. At this rate a college degree would be a terrible decision for my children (16 years from college age). Unless something gets turned around I'll probably be hesitant in forcing a college degree on my children.

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@Corey Conklin Not sure how old are your kids. when I  started educating my kids they were young.

One of the things I did with them was open a special saving account (local Credit union) that gave  them 6% on the 1st $500. that meant over $2 every month in interest.

When they asked for a new toy - I told them :"you have money in the bank, you can use it but if you do you will het less interest. So do you really want the toy or do you prefer more money from the bank", most of the time they said :"I'll take more money" :)

 @Sharon Mittelman That is a great idea. Help your kids understand that money is a tool to enjoy life and the power of compounding interest!

My child is still young and expecting our 2nd soon. We aren't done having children so it's been a topic that my wife and I have been discussing a lot lately. We not only want our children to work hard and understand how money works, we want them to not attach themselves to material items. Your new toy example does a good job at teaching these principles.

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@Account Closed

Why does everyone always think I'm dead broke because I own a garage full of tools?

@Jim K. Right!?! I love my tools and love getting to use tools (and buy new ones) as much as the rest of the business. 

Just because I know how to build furniture, fix plumbing, paint, lay floor, etc. doesn't mean I don't know how to underwrite, read P&L statements, manage processes and systems, etc.

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Marcus already stole my quote..... provide your kids enough $$ to do something but not enough to do nothing....

Shaq also has the right attitude with his kids.... he has multiple statements about his wealth and his kids... basically he says " WE arent rich..... I"M rich.... you aint got jack".... you will make your own way in life. I'll be there to help guide you.... you want my $$? Then come up with a business proposal and I'll review it just like any other investment I would make. 

 @Ned J. That quote is very similar to one I'm familiar with "give a man a fish, you feed him for a day. teach a man to fish, he'll eat for a lifetime" 

My job as a father is to teach my kids to fish and watch them go catch their own. Hopefully I live long enough to watch them catch bigger fish than I ever could.