Solid post @Scott Schaecher - this brother of yours sounds like a smart, handsome dude.
Do your diligence folks. It's amazing what you can find on or about contractors, tenants, handymen, etc. we hemmed and hawed over whether to role the dice on this guy. If it went as promised - we found our guy for the next few deals. If it fell apart, we arranged the contraxt where if the contractor flaked on us, we wouldn't be too far behind on finishing costs when we hired another contractor (unless the materials disappeared with our original guy). For now, we're somewhere in the middle, the things he promised are getting done, but slowly, so we're frustrated we don't already have tenants in there. Most people don't know that in many counties and states, civil court records (usually not the documents involved in the lawsuit) are easily accessible online to the public. So do your homework - a little extra effort now can can save a lot of time and expense later.
Scott also didn't point out that we're both married with little ones and while our wives have not been directly involved in the day to day of this project, they're extremely supportive of efforts and have gotten into listening to the podcasts etc. That support and joint interest has made this a lot easier. Plus, if my wife says "wow, that's ugly." I can just say "Scott did it."
@Jason Chen Not trying to be defensive on our numbers, neither of us will call this anything close to a home run or a big win. (Debacle, sh** show, quagmire are words that came to mind at various times.) And when I was reading this for the first time I was thinking "please tell them we didn't end up paying $105!". But you make great points and the education has been worth every extra penny. We did make a few upgrades that may not have been necessary if we were going to flip it and chose more tenant proof products. We consider ourselves pretty handy and have been around a decent amount of construction in our few years, so maybe we were over confident but there were tons of things we didn't see or thought were salvageable that we'll know to be looking for in the future. And I think this is also the value of having an experienced partner that we hear on the podcasts. These are all things they might've been able to point out. But, like we learned from G.I Joe: Now we know. And knowing's half the battle."
Stay tuned. Hopefully Scott's next post will be about a great finished product, an intact relationship with a contractor we'll use again, a better profit than we anticipated, and most importantly how he refrained from murdering his little brother during the project.
(Sorry for any autocorrect typos)