OP:
1. Paying tax is great, means you are making income. You can defer to some degree.
2. Your deals will always have both Cash Flow and Equity components.
3. As Poster above noted, Cash Flow and Income tax/Income are two different outcomes.
4. Your major issue in the discussion. How to go for an Appreciation deal.
You force it. And you do control the outcome based on your deal and Market analysis.
A. Buy the oldest ugliest home in a really nice neighborhood.
B. Buy a home that you can split, ADU, or split the land into an extra lot. Move it to STR or MTR.
C. Buy an empty lot in a development, in a nice area, at the "Correct" time early in the development.
D. If you're talking Commercial property then the higher your Net Operating Income goes and the leases or quality or renters you have, the higher your value goes. You do both, you increase your income, and in Commercial that forces the value of the property up.
E. Let's say you are a dentist or lawyer. If you take a nice empty property buy it and lease it yourself, you have increased the value. If you go to sale, they will want you to have a long-term lease on it, so you don't move out. Or you develop or bring a business into that building. Could be as simple as an empty building. You then turn into a Fireworks warehouse and sales location. You have to be creative, then you create equity.