@Jack Zhuang, it seems like you are trying to justify how a “small fry” can participate in the larger deals as opposed to being “stuck” with smaller multifamily. I struggle with this too but what I came to realize after talking with some other MF guys is it’s probably more difficult to manage multiple smaller properties than it is one bigger assuming the number of units is the same, the economies of scale.
As for the financial aspect, unless you have GC money burning a hole in your pocket looking for a place to hide from uncle same working with a team and getting involved in syndications May be the way to go. Heck, GC preaches syndications and MF all day long!
That said, moving from SFH to big MF is scary, and that is where smaller MF units can come in. Maybe not 4-pieces, but more like 12,16,20 unit properties.
If you like I have a contact that lives in the Bay Area who does syndications, I can reach out and put you two in touch, he’s done small and is now doing large, think he’s closing on a 608 unit in the next 30 days.
You’re best route if you really want to get into BIG multifamily quickly may be from the LP side of a syndication, or as somebody who can add value to the GP side AND still toss some passive funds into the deal.
Long winded, hope that helps