You seem to putting demands on her right away, seems kind of harsh.
Realtors do not work like how you asked her to.
You tried to set the rules too much up front.
Also, it was not clear to me, and probably to her, if you expected her to find you a property, or you had a property in mind.
Being a RE agent, and investor, here is I would have like to seen an email sent to me:
Dear Mr. Agent,
I have done my research, and it appears that you are one of the leading agents in the ZYX area.
I am a real estate investor, specializing in finding fixer uppers, and have located a possible property to purchase and rehab, then immediately resell. I could use your help.
I am not currently working with any real estate agent, and am looking for an agent that can help me do a few quick desktop valuations. If I end up purchasing the property I will list the property with you, once it has been rehabbed.
The property address is 123 Hill st., Whatevertown, CA.
When would be a good time for me to come to your office, so we can discuss this further
Thank you,
Joe Investor [/i]