@Aaron Bard
Welcome!
I want to provide you with some feedback that you may not get on here from the perspective of having done a house hack myself. I learned a lot. I also lost a good chunk of money (20k) and here is why: my goals changed after I got a life changing job/raise, so I decided to sell. It's impossible to predict the future, but you should be choosing a strategy that aligns with your long term goals. Do you want to buy and hold small multifamily properties in your market? There is nothing wrong house hacking, it's a great tool. While everyone here pushes investing RE, they rarely advocate for trying to pick a strategy that aligns with who you are as a person and who you want to be.
If you decide HH is for you then my recommendation is this:
consider a SFH with an ADU or with the ability to build an ADU. Expenses on a 4 unit could easily wipe you out when first getting started, especially if something like 2-4 of the furnaces going out. Which 100% happens, ask me how I know lol.
look at who is giving you the info/advice you're getting. RE brokers/agents, loan officers, etc. Individuals that have no financial gain in a transaction with you are often the best providers of objectivity.
**Before someone says "well he didn't underwrite the deal correctly"; I do cost estimates for construction projects for a living, so my numbers were fairly solid going into the deal. Net CF was $500/MO after reserves. My life just changed and it no longer made sense from a ROT perspective**