Julian, find a Realtor that will work WITH you. It's clear the two of you aren't a good fit, but that's not your fault. Both of you should be able to communicate what you're looking for out of the relationship - that's what teamwork is based on. If you're pre-approved (that is, if you're not intending to buy with cash) it should be clear you're serious about making a purchase and that should be motivating. If it isn't, your Realtor may just be very busy with other clients he/she thinks will be more profitable to work with. Good for them, but that's not a good fit for you. I also would not take investment advice from a Realtor - most of whom are not investors themselves. Make sure you're working with one who has experience as an investor or representing investors. That may also be the reason it's not a good fit. There are really, really good Realtors out there. Keep looking and you'll find one. In a tight market, you might need to get off the MLS to open up more opportunity for you. Don't be afraid to go to a REIA meeting and network with some local wholesalers who may be able to bring you an off market deal. Many people badmouth wholesalers but, just like Realtors, Contractors and any other profession there are good and bad. We've been lucky to have only good experiences with wholesalers. Best of luck to you!