@Liza Leif If you are in real estate, buying, and/or selling I would change my mindset. You have people in the same industry calling you, this is the perfect opportunity to build your network although it may not be the way you want to do it. Don't look at those calls as the enemy, they are opportunity. Can't tell you how many calls we get from agents, wholesalers, lenders, and never a serious buyer. Mindset is key to how you live your life. If you are frustrated at those calls that runs through all other aspects of life whether you want it to consciously or subconsciously. You are in a position of power use it for positivity and you may find a mentee/lifelong friend, deal, or someone who wants to over pay for a property you never thought you'd sell for a crazy price. Embrace the suck.
Agents - We put the carrot on a stick, you find us a deal and we can talk about selling/trading one of our other properties.
Wholesalers - Never had a chance at getting our property but they're calling and doing the grunt work that I don't do anymore, so build rapport with them and see what else they are getting. Not everyone tells them to get lost, wholesalers get deals and when they do we want to be their first call.
Lenders - Always open to hear their rates and terms and see what they can do for us. These calls always go nowhere but still give them the time of day as you never know there may be that one that has a product that we need at that moment.