I've been weary of hard money lenders as their interest rates destroy a properties cash flow, at least that's what my CF models illustrate. Any opinions on hard money lenders from you all?
First of all, congrats on having the right Girlfriend. Marry her immediately. Having the right spouse onboard is an amazing partnership that will take you very far in life.
Secondly, you'd never run cash flow numbers with hard money. Hard money is only for purchasing great deals quickly, and rehabbing properties to sell or refinance out. Sounds like you are bankable for a conventional loan on the refinance, so why not BRRRR? I think somebody mentioned BRRRR is risky, but to me, risk is having less money in the future than you would otherwise have if you put 20% down and grew very very slowly that way. THAT is the risk. Also, when people say BRRRR is risky, they have probably never done one before. I've personally done 18 of them, never had any issue.
Pro Tip: Get a property manager with in house turn crews to do the rehab for you (should be a light cosmetic rehab) and then manage it for you and you shouldn't have annoying contractor issues. There are plenty of good PMs doing this.
This is going to be the best strategy for you with 25K in reserves. You'll qualify for hard money if you can find a great deal and a good HM lender willing to fund up to 100% of the deal. They Exist.
I recommend doing 2 things:
1. Read David Greene's book on BRRRR
2. Keep saving while you do everything possible to find a great deal you can buy for less than 75% of ARV all in. 70% is best though.
Good Luck!