@Todd G.
Generally you will show up and there are one or two of us standing around awkwardly asking each other and random strangers if we/they are here for the BP Meet up. I like to think of this time as an ice breaker! If you are late, we will generally have been seated and you should just ask for the real estate group.
There is no format so far (this is the 6th one). We usually introduce ourselves and tell a little bit about where we are in the investing spectrum and what we are working on. Feel free to let everyone know what you are looking for out of this group. Since we have had a lot of turnover, we usually just let the intros guide the discussion. If there is 5-6 people the discussion generally stays a group thing. I have noticed that when there are more, everyone tends to speak to those closest to them because it is in an open restaurant and it is hard for everyone to hear. It will be nice to get a better space. With eating, there is not much time for anything else.
This is very informal and there is no presentation or expectation of anyone to do anything. You are welcome to sit back and listen or ask/answer questions as you feel comfortable. I am not the "leader" and it is not my group. There is no right or wrong other than I feel there is a certain spirit to BP and I want to maintain that in the group. I am not interested in buying any programs or coaching and I don't sell anything. I believe most of the group agrees with that sentiment. Everyone is (so far) an adult and you are welcome to buy/sell etc from the relationships you form here.
Just so you know (and anyone else who cares) I do this because it is motivating for me and provides me a forum to seek new ideas and understand the local market. I believe someday I can find partners and capital investors as this group grows. I am very turned off by the sales pitcheness of other groups and I am not interested in joining one of them or creating one. However, I have found BP to be an amazing resource and has taken my knowledge 10X!!!!! The individuals coming so far have been an amazing combination of experienced and just starting out and I leave the meetings fired up.
If you have any other questions let me know.
(Edited to make it clear- I have no problem with anyone coming with the purpose of making money. I hope we are all here for that reason. Everyone should be above the board on what they are doing.)