My husband and I both have doctorate degrees in the healthcare industry. We love what we do, but have spent years going to school and have accumulated so much student debt. While we can still live comfortably, the thought of student loans taking the majority of our income each month for many years is depressing. We have spent years in school and now that we are out, we finally want to live our lives. One of our dreams has been to build our dream home, but we have always felt that we wouldn't have enough money, our debt to income ratio is too high, and that we are working hard to make little progress financially and just life in general.
I have always had a passion for construction and design, so naturally I thought fix and flips would allow me to tap into my creative side while making some extra money. My husband does not share this passion and only sees all the risk without positive outcomes (us losing all the money we currently have). He never really contemplated the idea.
Then on one long road trip, I decided to look up a podcast for real estate investing and house flipping, which brought me to BP. Ever since then I knew this was something I wanted to pursue and have been addicted to BP and its tools, resources, and forums since.
Although I am just starting out and new to real estate investing and am not close to a deal yet, my husband is finally on board! The reason? I'm becoming educated and am sharing my newfound knowledge with him everyday. He now doesn't think I'm just wildly taking a gander at real estate. What impressed him the most I think and showed him how serious I am, was sharing my in-depth business plan; everything from goals (both personal and business), my target market, strategies for finding and evaluating good deals and financing them, exit strategies in the event of not being able to sell, and a breakdown of how profits will be utilized and handled.
It is a great feeling when your spouse believes in what you do. Good luck to everyone out there trying to convince their better half real estate investing is worth the risk. Sometimes it just takes a little creativity and a realistic business plan to not only highlight your plans for the profits, but also show that you have contemplated the worst case scenario and have plans for handling that situation as well, as it will give them peace of mind.
Ashley