@Jeff Stevenson
You really should consult a qualified professional or two, specifically at least attorney.
So far, your lender is correct that legal entities, such as LLC's, are not eligble for conforming residential loans. Most investors are moving Title to their names, then moving the Title back to the LLC's. In my layman's point of view, this is co-mingling and alter-ego violations to piercing the corporate veil. The other issue is the mortgage is in your name, and nothte LLC. To obtain the limited liability protection, you really want everything under the LLC's name. Remember, it is its own entity and has to be managed as such.
The Due on Sale clause is hotly contested. There was a change recently, a few years ago now at least, where transfer to Title to a LLC of your own is okay. Anyway, as mentioend, you really should take Title to the LLC and get a commercial loan.
Trusts are mentioned a lot as well. They generally at best help to provide anonymity. In practice, it can be difficult to not sign your name on some publicly recorded document, or some other document that can be gotten a hold of... The primary way to get the "protection" is through the LLC. Otherwise, trusts can be useful but for the uber wealth when they setup the irrevocable trusts.
Poke aruond BP. The LLC issues comes up many times. Many investors, like myself, just hold TItle personally with homeowners/landlord insurance, umbrella policy, and keep the property in good repair. Those investors who want the LLC but won't pay for it (ie move Title back and forth and get commrecial fiancing) APPEAR to be messing with their corporate veil anyway.
Its up to you, but you should do it correctly.
Oh, other issues with moving TItle back and forth include invalidating your Title Insurance policy and decreasing the validity of the Chain of Title by using quit claim deeds.
The protective benefits of the LLC are commonly touted. however, it depends on what you are doing and your personal preference. There was a recent thread asking for results of actual lawsuits to their LLC. It was pretty long and basically barely found one and it still all boils down to insurance. Remember, even with a LLC you still need insurance, otherwise you'll go broke protecting your LLC in legal fees. For those that say the insurance company's job is not to pay out --- then perhaps you should go with a more reputable insurance company...
Hope this bit helps. Happy to chat. Good luck.