Friend of mine read a few books and got really into real estate investing and wanted to flip a home. I naturally stayed close contact with him to see how things were going, then I drove to where he lived (4 hours away) to actually have a look at things, mainly b/c he wanted me to lend him the money to fix up a place.
He got a home for $30k, comps in the area were going for 80k, he said, and he made the deal as quickly as possible because his whole mentality was getting things as done as fast as lightning. I was worried he wasn't thinking about unexpected setbacks, dealing with contractors, and also, how to balance money vs. time. His loan on the house obv wasn't large, so I was afraid he would wind up spending thousands on contractors to try and get things done in a few weeks when he could take his time a little with fewer contractors and just pay out a few hundred in mortgage payments and save himself some money, i.e. make himself some money. Well I told him let's see how he does on his first home and if he does ok and learns a lot, i'll jump in on the next project.
Few weeks go by and the guy won't return my calls, won't contact me about the home or anything. I'm not stupid and started to guess maybe he was in over his head and was too embarrased to tell me he was making a lot of mistakes. Yep.
Nothing was going the way he wanted it too, starting from day 1. 3hrs before closing the lender tells him to double down on payment because he was risky. Well that cuts out cash he could have used fixing up the home. He already borrowed the max he could from the bank, given his credit (not good). The contractor didnt' do what he wanted him to do, I still don't even know exactly what went on, whether he was going slow or did poor work or what, but my friend said he physically threatened the contractor, and the guy walked out on him after that. So there he was, with a POS home and nobody willing to do the work for him and out of money to do anything anyways.
He ended up selling the home to another investor. I have no clue how much he lost on the home, but he certainly learned a lot, for instance he has no patience dealing with people.
He has since vowed not to return to real estate. I told him I'd be here when he wants to come back. Poor guy